Weew.. How long will it take for me to realize that I still have a Blog Site?? Im so so sorry my avid readers, How can I abandon you when all of the most intriguing,dramatic, drastic, explosive, devastating, surprising, heart-breaking things in my life were happening I wasnt able to blog!?!!? Maybe beacause all of the things that happened was too real life I was so focused in facing them that I havent had the stregnth to write about it, the courage to admit it and the ability to explain it in writing.. But let me try;
First we all know that my Dad died in September last Year and then guess what, my Husband had another woman, it was his officemate, at first he was telling me that he fell out of love and then I found out that he has another woman, I fought, I tried to save our Marriage, I did everything that I can, All the Holiday season wasted since I was like a Zombie. so hurt and all, I was in a complete Twilight Zone, I was Just there staring in blank, I was being strong but in fact I was being numb of all the pain I was going through. Loosing My Dad, Loosing My Husband, Loosing both Man in my life is soo much for me.. is it the though of loosing them?? or is it the thought both of them are the people where I get my stregnth from and now that both of them are gone where will I get the will and power to move on..
When my Dad died the thing the hurts me is that everyone knows me that I can make things impossible, possibele.. When everyone thinks there’s no hope in making things happen, Imake it happen.. So when My Dad died I said, why cant I make things go away this time? What can I do to make this Cancer go away, if I am what they say I am that I am the person who will make things happen, why can’t I fight the Leukemia taking away my Dad.. Why??
So whatever pain this fight for my marriage is causing me I still fought, I did not give up; I ate all my pride to save my marriage, because I chose to be married; I did not stand infront of the altar and made a promise to God and my whole family and break it, for better or for worse right? But then I suddenly get tired and helpless, hopeless actually, but I still believed in our love and our marriage, when the time I stopped fighting he then came back, I did not make the misery long, it is not right, I immediately took him back.. I did not forgive him yet i still hate him for whatever he had done; but I accepted him cause we are married. I will not be as selfish as he was, I will be understanding and kind cause that it was he needs, guidance.. So that’s what I did, though everybody thought I was a fool and stupid.. I did not mind.. this is what I want and I know is right.
And now I still cannot forget what happened, it still haunts me. But Im happy with my decision, and now we are working things out, just the two of us.
Well that’s the best I can do, in telling you what happened for the past month.. I will take deep breathe and finally can continue blogging with I plan to blog about
Live.Laugh.Love and Get Drunk 
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